Love is a choice?

Love encompasses a range of strong and positive emotional and mental states, from the most sublime virtue or good habit, the deepest interpersonal affection, to the simplest pleasure. An example of this range of meanings is that the love of a mother differs from the love of a spouse, which differs from the love of food. Most commonly, love refers to a feeling of a strong attraction and emotional attachment.

Love is considered to be both positive and negative, with its virtue representing human kindness, compassion, and affection, as “the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another” and its vice representing human moral flaw, akin to vanity, selfishness, amour-propre, and egotism, as potentially leading people into a type of mania, obsessiveness or codependency.

It may also describe compassionate and affectionate actions toward other humans, one’s self, or animals. In its various forms, love acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts. Love has been postulated to be a function that keeps human beings together against menaces and facilitates the continuation of the species.

Why Is Love A Choice?

You’ve probably heard people say that they fell in love. This is a common analogy for love. When you are in love, it feels like you’re falling. But once things settle down and reality sets in, these feelings will change from an overwhelming sensation to a calm and happy one.
Love is not just an emotion that you feel, it’s a decision that you make every day. This doesn’t mean that love is easy, but it means that you are in control of your own emotions. You get to choose how much love or happiness you want in your life.

How do I Choose Love?

The best way to choose love is by setting an intention each day. Decide what kind of relationship you want and think about the qualities that are important to you. Write these down so that you can refer back to them later on.
It’s also helpful to remember why you fell in love with your partner in the first place! Remind yourself of the good things about your partner and think about the things you love doing together.
When times get tough, it’s easy to forget why you’re with your partner in the first place. But if you take a step back and remember all of the good things, it will be easier to choose love.

How Can I Keep Choosing Love?

The best way to keep choosing love is by practising self-care. When you are taking care of yourself emotionally and physically, it’s much easier to make positive decisions. This includes eating healthy foods, getting enough sleep and exercise, and spending time with loved ones.

It’s also important to have realistic expectations for your relationship. Don’t expect your partner to meet your needs or change overnight. Make sure that you are both on the same page about your relationship goals. If needed, talk to a therapist or counsellor for guidance and support.
Love is something that takes practice every day! It’s important to choose love even when things aren’t going well to have a successful relationship overall.

Do this for yourself by practising self-care and reminding yourself why you chose love in the first place!
When it comes to love, you have two options: you can either choose to feel the emotions or not. Many people decide every day whether or not they will allow themselves to feel the feelings of love. If you want a relationship that is serious and not just casual dating, then read on!

How Is Love a Choice?

You’ve probably heard people say that they fell in love. This is a common analogy for love. When you are in love, it feels like you’re falling. But once things settle down and reality sets in, these feelings will change from an overwhelming sensation to a calm and happy one.

Love is not just an emotion that you feel, it’s a decision that you make every day. This doesn’t mean that love is easy but it means that you are always in control of what happens next! You get to choose how much or how little love or happiness shows up in your life on any given day.

There are many things that I have chosen to love. I do not mean the common phrase, “love is a choice,” which most people understand to be about commitment in marriage. I mean choosing specific items or ideas to focus on and appreciate. For example, when my wife found out she was pregnant with our first child, she immediately began to shop for cribs. She told me excitedly one day that she had found the perfect bedding set.

The stuffed animal characters were very small and so cute. They would match with the other things we have for babies. We don’t have anything like it in storage from when our older brother was little, so it will be perfect! She said that we will not have any more children after this new baby is born. She says we can use the set of clothes for the new baby and then again with any future children.

When she excitedly presented me with the bag of bedding, I didn’t feel very excited. My enthusiasm was notably absent; I just couldn’t get myself to say “I love it.” I am not an artist. But my wife is. Sometimes it is hard to agree on what design to use for our house. She asked what was wrong as tears suddenly filled my eyes. Through some broken words and some choked-up moments, I said something about how this set seemed so perfect for us, and it would be so nice to have those little animals on our baby’s bed. She said that I could keep the bag as a reminder three years from now when we were getting ready for another baby, and she went out to buy a different kind of bedding.

Conclusion

We all have the power to choose love. And if we can teach ourselves how, we will be able to find it even when life seems impossible and hopeless. With this knowledge of what’s possible – that you’re not a victim but instead an agent for change – everything changes. You become hopeful and filled with possibility and open-mindedness about your future…someone who has found true happiness in themselves, which leads them to see others as they are too; people worthy of our attention and care because they deserve nothing less than love from us.”

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